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Elizabeth Louise "Betty Lou"
Herbst
May 2, 1923 – March 10, 2026
Elizabeth Louise "Betty Lou" Herbst, age 102, of Ranch Oaks in Manhattan, passed away peacefully in her sleep at her home on March 10, 2026 surrounded by her loving family. Survived by her children Thomas E. (Diana) Herbst, Kathleen M. (Thomas) Robinson and Richard A. (Paula) Herbst. Her grandchildren Jeffrey J. Herbst, Cynthia J. (James) Hudetz, Tanya M. (Joseph) Higgins, William M. Robinson, Zachary G. Herbst and Riley J. Herbst, Great Grandchildren Devin, Zander, Gianna, Vincent, Kendall and Kyle, her sister Judith Bunte and numerous nieces and nephews.
Preceded in death by her parents Arthur C. and Mary Louise "Mollie" (nee Nolan) Osmus, her husband Raymond G. "Pinky" Herbst (1989), her son in infancy Joseph G. Herbst (1960), her brother and sister-in-law Eugene A. and Yvonne J. Osmus, and her brother-in-law Lawrence Bunte.
Betty was born May 2, 1923 on her family's farm in New Lenox, IL. She attended Haven Grade School, New Lenox and was a graduate of Joliet Township High School. After high school, Betty was employed at the American Institute of Laundry where she met and then married Raymond George "Pinky" Herbst on November 29, 1947. Betty Lou and Pinky built their first home in Joliet at 1107 Kelly Ave. They lived in that house until August, 1959 when they moved into the house they built in Ranch Oaks subdivision in Manhattan. Betty's husband Pinky ran Herbst Amoco Gas Station in Joliet and Betty's responsibility was to manage all the bookwork associated, which she faithfully did every single night by hand from 1968 to 1988.
Betty was a devout Catholic and life long active member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, Manhattan. She was a member of the Catholic Council of Women "CCW", she hosted countless funeral luncheons and was voted "Woman of the Year" several times. Betty Lou was one of the last ones of her friends to drive, this made her the ultimate taxi service as she was constantly taking people to nursing homes for visits, funeral homes for visitations, grocery stores and pharmacies. If you needed a ride, Betty was your person. She was also the ultimate babysitter, she babysat for many generations all the way down to her great grandchildren. Betty Lou enjoyed vegetable and flower gardening, and her meticulous lawn, most of the time cutting it herself and her many rides on Mary Jane's golf cart visiting all the neighbors in Ranch Oaks. Looking forward to those rides, she would often call the kids and inform them to not call the FBI, she is going on a golf cart ride with Mary Jane. At the end of each day, Betty Lou enjoyed her night cap of a glass of white wine from Trader Joes.
Betty Lou was a one of a kind, she was tiny in stature yet mighty in opinion and personality. She was constantly on the move, mostly doing for others. A devoted mother, cherished grandmother, doting great grandmother, dear sister and true friend, she will be truly missed by her family, neighbors, church family and those she touched in life. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Rita, Betty's caregiver, for her unwavering care, attention, and devotion she gave to Betty during her time of need; Rita's presence gave great peace of mind and relief to her entire family.
Visitation for Betty will take place on Friday, March 13, 2026 from 4:00 P.M. – 8:00 P.M. at Forsythe Gould Funeral Home. Prayers will be held at 9:30 A.M. on Saturday, March 14, 2026, also at the funeral home, which will be immediately followed by procession to St. Joseph Catholic Church, Manhattan, for Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 A.M. Honored pallbearers are Zachary Herbst, Riley Herbst, Zander Hudetz, Jim Hudetz, Devin Herbst, Michael Bunte, and Billy Robinson. In lieu of flowers, donations in Betty's honor to St. Joseph Catholic Church, 235 W North St., Manhattan, IL, would be most appreciated. Arrangements entrusted to Forsythe Gould Funeral Home, 507 S. State St., Manhattan, IL 60442, 815-478-3321, www.forsythegouldfh.com.
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